the faint tatters of clouds slip behind dark mountains
the desert is cold
a woman stands wrapped in a shawl, her hair spills over her shoulders.
her bare feet clench the clay,
tangles of weeds rub against the hardened skin.
in the distance a faint baby's cry
stiffled by the wind.
a step
and another more quickly,
the moonlight flashes against the darting, slender legs.
the gusts picks up, swirling around her-
sand tears at her face and eyes
it begins in her breath,
slowly it becomes like the wind.
the soil bleeds into her veins.
fingers trace the brush, blending
the sky envelops her.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Sometimes it's just better to write when my shoes are on and my contacts are dry in my eyes. I'm back at school, but I my foot steps are so barely touching the ground at Loyola Marymount. I'm half way on the plane to Chicago already. This last week cemented some decisions in my life, and that's just the way things are going to be. At least that's just the way things are going to be planned on, and if they change well then things will roll like they always seem to fall.
I've been giving more and more consideration to abandoning the academic lifestyle. Don't worry, I won't be jumping ship over open waters; I have every intention of finishing out my master's degree in philosophy. I still have plenty of things to learn here, and I owe quite a bit to quite a few people- including myself- before I can cut loose. When I left college at St. Mary's I had to make up enough determination to say that the philosophic life was right, and that I could make a life out of it. Now I've learned that philosophic life may not necessarily coincide with a PhD and a tenure track, no matter how much my professors say that scholastics and academics are complentary with the pursuit of truth. If I am going to be true with myself and live to my potential I have to honestly consider what will lead to happiness. If that means teaching at a high school, and leaving the world of higher academics behind- c'est la vie.
I'm not turning my back on it all. I think that would be just as detrimental to my vision as plodding on the PhD track without considering what I'd rather be doing. I very well my find myself a few years from now submitting articles for journals and applying to universities. But at this point I think the right thing for me is grow up, and that will take some real introspection. If I can suceed in being truly contemplative without the academic collar around my neck, I think I will have reached a point where I can branch out to professorship or even authorship. I really need to experience the wonder and majesty as I did when I was in the program. And I need to know that I can do that on my own, without trying to satisfy someone who is ready to evaluate me.
Above and beyond all that there is family and friends, and really what else is there. I'm ready to be there.
I've been giving more and more consideration to abandoning the academic lifestyle. Don't worry, I won't be jumping ship over open waters; I have every intention of finishing out my master's degree in philosophy. I still have plenty of things to learn here, and I owe quite a bit to quite a few people- including myself- before I can cut loose. When I left college at St. Mary's I had to make up enough determination to say that the philosophic life was right, and that I could make a life out of it. Now I've learned that philosophic life may not necessarily coincide with a PhD and a tenure track, no matter how much my professors say that scholastics and academics are complentary with the pursuit of truth. If I am going to be true with myself and live to my potential I have to honestly consider what will lead to happiness. If that means teaching at a high school, and leaving the world of higher academics behind- c'est la vie.
I'm not turning my back on it all. I think that would be just as detrimental to my vision as plodding on the PhD track without considering what I'd rather be doing. I very well my find myself a few years from now submitting articles for journals and applying to universities. But at this point I think the right thing for me is grow up, and that will take some real introspection. If I can suceed in being truly contemplative without the academic collar around my neck, I think I will have reached a point where I can branch out to professorship or even authorship. I really need to experience the wonder and majesty as I did when I was in the program. And I need to know that I can do that on my own, without trying to satisfy someone who is ready to evaluate me.
Above and beyond all that there is family and friends, and really what else is there. I'm ready to be there.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Tonight I'm not sure what I want to write about. It's been a little while since I've actually wrote something. This last week has aged me.
I'm sitting in my room waiting for the laundry to finish. I don't feel like cooking or cleaning or eating. And I think that's okay for now. For me there's something about an empty stomach that feels right when you're afraid of bad news. I've been wondering how and when Faith would become present to me again, like when I was younger. It occured to me the other day, that I often go so far astray that I don't think to pray even when I need it. I used to thing it must be a miserable thing for God to hear my prayers only when I needed protection. Now when I think about him looking at me when I'm in over my head and I can't step out of my own thoughts for a moment to think of Christ. I've never been convinced by people who lost their Faith over sudden traumatic losses. But that's probably because of every story I've heard about how people in the same sort of circumstance gained rather than lost their belief in God. I think I've let myself fallen prey to something worse, spiritually, soulfully, than those hard times. It's something like a disease in the soul to drift away like that. When I realize where I've gone I'm struck by the thought that I in all that time I must have done serious damage to my Faith, and that it will take time and devotion of thought to put me back in that better place. I'm not sure if that's how it works, but if it is, then I worry someday I won't be able to swim that far.
It's hard to be in prayer. Maybe I'm so used to distracting myself now that I don't have the discipline to focus myself and my thoughts for that long. Sometimes I really don't know how people can do it. Last night I was on a plane from Sacramento, and an elderly filipino woman was sitting next to me. When we started to take off, she pulled out a rosary and prayed for nearly the whole flight. It's something I've seen before, but this time I felt thankful. On the other side of me sat a young business man who was reading some sort of golf magazine. Sacramento airport probably had the highest ratio of single businessmen that I've seen before. This one was clean cut, and like all the other men in suits he looked like he rode this flight everyday. I wondered he ever appreciated women like the lady praying the rosary. I imagine he was so bored with the mundane experience of flying and the beer he was gulping was probably numbing any residual anxiety. I want a better prayer life. And I don't mean that I want the ability to stay in prayer for longer without becoming bored and then self-concious about that boredom. I don't mean I want to be like a runner that has trained himself to lope endlessly around a track. I think what it means is that I want the faith for the prayer to mean something more to me. I don't know if that's just asking for an inspired sensation, but it must be something like sincerity. The kind of sincerity that occurs between friends as they share in their grief.
Life will go on, I will grow old, and for better or worse I will try to prepare for the weight that will come. As much as I've imagined falling asleep at the end of my time surrounding by the people that love me, I know that things will be harder than it seems. I thought about alzheimer's and what it would be like to lose my self, that piece of my thought that's closest to me dashed away. It's terribly sorrowful, and even more so when I think how I could treat the ones that mean the most to me. To lose my self.
I'm not happy with what I've written. I think it's because I'm writing things that just aren't quite right; maybe I'm forcing smaller thoughts to have larger meaning. But I'll let it go for now, and maybe come back to something that was worthwhile.
I'm sitting in my room waiting for the laundry to finish. I don't feel like cooking or cleaning or eating. And I think that's okay for now. For me there's something about an empty stomach that feels right when you're afraid of bad news. I've been wondering how and when Faith would become present to me again, like when I was younger. It occured to me the other day, that I often go so far astray that I don't think to pray even when I need it. I used to thing it must be a miserable thing for God to hear my prayers only when I needed protection. Now when I think about him looking at me when I'm in over my head and I can't step out of my own thoughts for a moment to think of Christ. I've never been convinced by people who lost their Faith over sudden traumatic losses. But that's probably because of every story I've heard about how people in the same sort of circumstance gained rather than lost their belief in God. I think I've let myself fallen prey to something worse, spiritually, soulfully, than those hard times. It's something like a disease in the soul to drift away like that. When I realize where I've gone I'm struck by the thought that I in all that time I must have done serious damage to my Faith, and that it will take time and devotion of thought to put me back in that better place. I'm not sure if that's how it works, but if it is, then I worry someday I won't be able to swim that far.
It's hard to be in prayer. Maybe I'm so used to distracting myself now that I don't have the discipline to focus myself and my thoughts for that long. Sometimes I really don't know how people can do it. Last night I was on a plane from Sacramento, and an elderly filipino woman was sitting next to me. When we started to take off, she pulled out a rosary and prayed for nearly the whole flight. It's something I've seen before, but this time I felt thankful. On the other side of me sat a young business man who was reading some sort of golf magazine. Sacramento airport probably had the highest ratio of single businessmen that I've seen before. This one was clean cut, and like all the other men in suits he looked like he rode this flight everyday. I wondered he ever appreciated women like the lady praying the rosary. I imagine he was so bored with the mundane experience of flying and the beer he was gulping was probably numbing any residual anxiety. I want a better prayer life. And I don't mean that I want the ability to stay in prayer for longer without becoming bored and then self-concious about that boredom. I don't mean I want to be like a runner that has trained himself to lope endlessly around a track. I think what it means is that I want the faith for the prayer to mean something more to me. I don't know if that's just asking for an inspired sensation, but it must be something like sincerity. The kind of sincerity that occurs between friends as they share in their grief.
Life will go on, I will grow old, and for better or worse I will try to prepare for the weight that will come. As much as I've imagined falling asleep at the end of my time surrounding by the people that love me, I know that things will be harder than it seems. I thought about alzheimer's and what it would be like to lose my self, that piece of my thought that's closest to me dashed away. It's terribly sorrowful, and even more so when I think how I could treat the ones that mean the most to me. To lose my self.
I'm not happy with what I've written. I think it's because I'm writing things that just aren't quite right; maybe I'm forcing smaller thoughts to have larger meaning. But I'll let it go for now, and maybe come back to something that was worthwhile.
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Sailing to Byzantium
WB Yeats
That is no country for old men. The young
In one another's arms, birds in the trees
- Those dying generations - at their song,
The salmon-falls, the mackerel-crowded seas,
Fish, flesh, or fowl, commend all summer long
Whatever is begotten, born, and dies.
Caught in that sensual music all neglect
Monuments of unageing intellect.
An aged man is but a paltry thing,
A tattered coat upon a stick, unless
Soul clap its hands and sing, and louder sing
For every tatter in its mortal dress,
Nor is there singing school but studying
Monuments of its own magnificence;
And therefore I have sailed the seas and come
To the holy city of Byzantium.
O sages standing in God's holy fire
As in the gold mosaic of a wall,
Come from the holy fire, perne in a gyre,
And be the singing-masters of my soul.
Consume my heart away; sick with desire
And fastened to a dying animal
It knows not what it is; and gather me
Into the artifice of eternity.
Once out of nature I shall never take
My bodily form from any natural thing,
But such a form as Grecian goldsmiths make
Of hammered gold and gold enamelling
To keep a drowsy Emperor awake;
Or set upon a golden bough to sing
To lords and ladies of Byzantium
Of what is past, or passing, or to come.
WB Yeats
That is no country for old men. The young
In one another's arms, birds in the trees
- Those dying generations - at their song,
The salmon-falls, the mackerel-crowded seas,
Fish, flesh, or fowl, commend all summer long
Whatever is begotten, born, and dies.
Caught in that sensual music all neglect
Monuments of unageing intellect.
An aged man is but a paltry thing,
A tattered coat upon a stick, unless
Soul clap its hands and sing, and louder sing
For every tatter in its mortal dress,
Nor is there singing school but studying
Monuments of its own magnificence;
And therefore I have sailed the seas and come
To the holy city of Byzantium.
O sages standing in God's holy fire
As in the gold mosaic of a wall,
Come from the holy fire, perne in a gyre,
And be the singing-masters of my soul.
Consume my heart away; sick with desire
And fastened to a dying animal
It knows not what it is; and gather me
Into the artifice of eternity.
Once out of nature I shall never take
My bodily form from any natural thing,
But such a form as Grecian goldsmiths make
Of hammered gold and gold enamelling
To keep a drowsy Emperor awake;
Or set upon a golden bough to sing
To lords and ladies of Byzantium
Of what is past, or passing, or to come.
Monday, February 04, 2008
Having your team lose in the Super Bowl makes all of the post-game festivities just miserable to watch. But at least they weren't my team, and the loss is something like watching Reggie Bush and Matt Leinart's USC team lose to Vince Young's Texas in the National Championship. They aren't my favorite team, but I wanted to see history made by a team I can like. After tonight I don't want to think or see football till next season. Over the last few weeks I've been reading more articles written by strictly sports commentators as opposed to the ones who attempt some social/political insight, and I have to say it was an unfortunate time. If we were to have modern day soothsayers, they would be former football players in sport suits and cyber jocks with a tendency towards hyperbole. The good thing, and I should say the great thing about losing a Super Bowl is it should make you question how important the game is within the grand scheme of life. And while I think most people, especially the players and coaches will continue to exagerate what this should mean to them, I also think this could a rare opportunity for self-reflection. Well I guess that's really all I have to say about the game itself, thankfully. Go niners.
The commercials. I passed out sometime in the first quarter, so I didn't see most of the commercials, but from what I could tell they were again lackluster- and perhaps especially so. I made up for it by watching the clips online afterwards. Seeing all of the best of the commercials compounded into a stream of clips made them seem better as a whole, but when I watched the worst of the advertisements, I was again surprised by how bad some of them really were. I don't know what Under Armor was going with in their commercial. They went from a small company that used to provide a unique product to athletes through mail order catalogues to some kind of hulking sports apparel business that lacks Nike's taste. If I saw their motif in a movie, I would think they were the bad guys set on world domination through might makes right, nationalist motivations. Is that the culmination of blue collar work ethic? Sales Genie brought out the worst commercials, and not because they were simply not funny. These were the ads that had the animated Indian salesman and a family of Chinese panda bears. Typically, I shun use of the race card, since I think people tend to hide behind it instead of being honest about it, but these commercials were somewhat upsetting to me. I've seen more offensive content before, butI am suprised that Sales Genie had the gall to use this sort of thing for a Super Bowl commercial. I doubt there will be public outcry against Asian and Indian discrimination in the media concerning these ads, but I can't help but wondering what would have happened if the cartoons were Black caricatures. Most people probably just thought that they weren't funny, and hopefully won't bother to endorse a company that lacks creativity; which I guess is a good thing. But if I was Indian or Chinese I think I would have been a little red in the face after watching; I'm only half Filipino and I'm embarassed.
It's Monday morning again, and I'm actually okay with the idea of getting ready for work soon. I think knowing that I plan to put in a honest work effort is making it easier to head off to what has been typically a dreadfully boring experience. I'm glad that I woke up early again for a chance since I have time to shake off the effects of Super Bowl snacks. James and I bought a 24 pack of Corona, that turned out to be in cute 7oz bottles instead of the real size. Half the beer twice the bottles oops. We only finished half of them, but that's probably cause I passed out from staying up all night again. We had chips, dips, salsa, and a 12-piece bucket of fried chicken. I woke up during the 4th quarter and all that good health eating caught up to me. My finger was swelling up so I stoned myself on Ibuprofen and Indocin. I hope Katyana didn't mind my medecine head babel on the phone. I'm feeling better now, and my finger is moving freely. Guess I'll have to start taking Allopurinol more regularly again.
A few things are coming up this week. And now that I'm just running over them in my mind, the only thing I am personally involved with is Lent. I decided to give up video gaming websites. I can waste as much time on those as the real thing, and having those around is a trigger for a wowlapse. But I'm glad I'm doing well in that respect; I still have a long ways to go as far as productivity and work- I really need to get those papers done and out of my life- but that can't happen if I'm melting my brain over those kinds of things. Overall the surge is working. I also need to pick a Saint name for confirmation. At the beginning of the RCIA classes we discussed gifts of the spirit, and I chose Courage as the one I wanted to work on the most. Many of my classmates had chosen it as their strength, but for me I think it is a very hard thing to stand where you know you should stand, and trying to live life in the way it should be lived is a fearful undertaking. I wanted to pick a saint who embodies Courage in the way I am thinking of it- Augustine comes to mind, but I want to do more looking before I choose. I am pretty excited about confirmation since I am getting closer and closer to the rite.
The commercials. I passed out sometime in the first quarter, so I didn't see most of the commercials, but from what I could tell they were again lackluster- and perhaps especially so. I made up for it by watching the clips online afterwards. Seeing all of the best of the commercials compounded into a stream of clips made them seem better as a whole, but when I watched the worst of the advertisements, I was again surprised by how bad some of them really were. I don't know what Under Armor was going with in their commercial. They went from a small company that used to provide a unique product to athletes through mail order catalogues to some kind of hulking sports apparel business that lacks Nike's taste. If I saw their motif in a movie, I would think they were the bad guys set on world domination through might makes right, nationalist motivations. Is that the culmination of blue collar work ethic? Sales Genie brought out the worst commercials, and not because they were simply not funny. These were the ads that had the animated Indian salesman and a family of Chinese panda bears. Typically, I shun use of the race card, since I think people tend to hide behind it instead of being honest about it, but these commercials were somewhat upsetting to me. I've seen more offensive content before, butI am suprised that Sales Genie had the gall to use this sort of thing for a Super Bowl commercial. I doubt there will be public outcry against Asian and Indian discrimination in the media concerning these ads, but I can't help but wondering what would have happened if the cartoons were Black caricatures. Most people probably just thought that they weren't funny, and hopefully won't bother to endorse a company that lacks creativity; which I guess is a good thing. But if I was Indian or Chinese I think I would have been a little red in the face after watching; I'm only half Filipino and I'm embarassed.
It's Monday morning again, and I'm actually okay with the idea of getting ready for work soon. I think knowing that I plan to put in a honest work effort is making it easier to head off to what has been typically a dreadfully boring experience. I'm glad that I woke up early again for a chance since I have time to shake off the effects of Super Bowl snacks. James and I bought a 24 pack of Corona, that turned out to be in cute 7oz bottles instead of the real size. Half the beer twice the bottles oops. We only finished half of them, but that's probably cause I passed out from staying up all night again. We had chips, dips, salsa, and a 12-piece bucket of fried chicken. I woke up during the 4th quarter and all that good health eating caught up to me. My finger was swelling up so I stoned myself on Ibuprofen and Indocin. I hope Katyana didn't mind my medecine head babel on the phone. I'm feeling better now, and my finger is moving freely. Guess I'll have to start taking Allopurinol more regularly again.
A few things are coming up this week. And now that I'm just running over them in my mind, the only thing I am personally involved with is Lent. I decided to give up video gaming websites. I can waste as much time on those as the real thing, and having those around is a trigger for a wowlapse. But I'm glad I'm doing well in that respect; I still have a long ways to go as far as productivity and work- I really need to get those papers done and out of my life- but that can't happen if I'm melting my brain over those kinds of things. Overall the surge is working. I also need to pick a Saint name for confirmation. At the beginning of the RCIA classes we discussed gifts of the spirit, and I chose Courage as the one I wanted to work on the most. Many of my classmates had chosen it as their strength, but for me I think it is a very hard thing to stand where you know you should stand, and trying to live life in the way it should be lived is a fearful undertaking. I wanted to pick a saint who embodies Courage in the way I am thinking of it- Augustine comes to mind, but I want to do more looking before I choose. I am pretty excited about confirmation since I am getting closer and closer to the rite.
Friday, February 01, 2008
I'm happy to say that I am writing this morning with pleasant thoughts in mind. It's around 7:20 in the morning, and my attempt to sleep for a full night was a failure. I tried to stay awake till a reasonable time, but I must have not waited long enough and woke up somewhere around 4-5 hours later at 3 in the morning. I may have pushed it to 4, but I wouldn't really call that sleep. I've been sleeping about 6 or 7 hours a day, but generally not for more than those 4-5 hours. I think it will just take some exercise to push me into a more normal sleeping schedule. Oddly enough. I'm sleeping at around the same time as those super athletes and pastry chefs that have to wake up early in the morning to accomplish their routines.
Back to the pleasant thoughts in mind. It's Friday morning, and I'm looking foward to a few events this weekend. Normally, I wouldn't be so proud of something like that; especially since I'm starting to see some of my high school and college friends take on the weekend warrior mentality now that they are taking jobs as accountants and real estate agents. Anyways, I'm renewing my pool membership, and that actually sounds a little bit fun to me. I'd probably swim everyday if pool water wasn't so cold. I admit that jumping in is always the worst part. This more of an interesting decision, because yesterday my checking account read 3 dollars and 56 cents. That's $3.56. I actually had to transfer money from my savings account for food. For me that's a little desperate, but in some little way I'm proud of it. At least I know that things are taken care of, and that I can at least make it from paycheck to paycheck. I've been thinking about all the times older people have told me about their times as a student with little or no money to spare. I'm certainly not starving; I just had a big breakfast. But I think I am finally appreciating what it means to assume responsibility for these concerns as a whole. I remember thinking about what that would be like when I was child.
I've become distracted again. This weekend I plan to head over to Janne's place. I haven't seen her since before the New Years, and I feel bad for not visiting more often. It will be nice to get away from this apartment. Saturday I don't have much in mind, but it would be excellent if I could pin myself down and do some research for my Plato paper. And Sunday is the Super Bowl. I'd like to get out of this place since it's not the most ideal place to watch the game, but I don't want to leave James behind. Hopefully, he's up for going some place. Anyways that's the weekend, and if you want to know what I really think of it, here it is- there are a bunch of opportunities to drink beer, and that sounds just fine to me.
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I'm bracketing off this portion of the entry, because I've been thinking about this over the last few days. In the December '07 edition of Time magazine there is an article about sensory disorders. In a segment of the article a researcher describes the most common sensory types founds amongst people. These aren't disorders, but she's found that most people fit into one of the behavior patterns.
Seekers- Enjoy extreme sports, touch others when talking, like being barefoot; hum, tap and make other idle noises.
Sensors- May startle easily; require quiet while working; notice minor changes in recipes; get motion sickness more than others.
Avoiders- Need time alone; have narrow food preferences; wear gloves for messy chores; steer clear of shopping malls.
Bystanders- Didn't notice clutter or ambient noise; may wear clothing askew; have bumps and bruises they don't recall getting.
After looking over the list a few times I've found that these aren't air tight. Just thinking about my brothers, I can see how they would cross a few of the categories. But I also think there is something to this; though it's possible I'm just putting too much into it. I see myself as a sensor. Clearly I get motion sickness more than others, I notice when the my burrito has a different kind of mexican rice, and really I can't work on a paper in a cafe, or when someone is snoring, or when there's punk music playing. I don't think I startle easily, but I'm not completely sure how to quantify that.
In someway I'd like to make an apology for sensors. Throughout my academic existence in the collegiate atmosphere, I've wondered what I'm good at. Fearfully, I've sometimes thought it was mimicry. I don't know if I actually have a creative bone in my body. That's why I was happy to hear Mr. Kelly talk about how no one is really creative, and that we all cop off other people before us, either conciously or unconciously. But it's possible that I'm exceptionally prone to adhering to other's ideas, and that I'm not worth much on my own. I guess if that's true, I've come to terms with it somewhat. I think the reason I pick up on other people's stuff, is that I can usually get a sense of people. Now I have to be careful when I say this, because I think it's a common thing for people to think they have a sense of people. That's probably why there are so many psychology majors. I think they want to get a handle of the way people act and react, and for the most part people are actually pretty good at this. This is why we expect people to see where we are coming from in certain situations, even if we may know very little about them. I just think they're more confident in their abilities than they really should be. To a great extent, and as much as people want to make it sound otherwise, people are still very much mysterious. And while we may have great faith in our ability to see into people, I think it's a mark of maturity to realize when that ability is in over its head.
If I had any talent that relates to the philosophic realm it would be that sort of sensing. Maybe that's why I'm more comfortable in (and gain more insight from) discussion rather than writing. And while I rely on it to make conversation go more smoothly, it's just a tool for the dialectic. Really you have to worry about any further use of it.
An hour later this post is going up, I'll think about these things and maybe write more later.
Back to the pleasant thoughts in mind. It's Friday morning, and I'm looking foward to a few events this weekend. Normally, I wouldn't be so proud of something like that; especially since I'm starting to see some of my high school and college friends take on the weekend warrior mentality now that they are taking jobs as accountants and real estate agents. Anyways, I'm renewing my pool membership, and that actually sounds a little bit fun to me. I'd probably swim everyday if pool water wasn't so cold. I admit that jumping in is always the worst part. This more of an interesting decision, because yesterday my checking account read 3 dollars and 56 cents. That's $3.56. I actually had to transfer money from my savings account for food. For me that's a little desperate, but in some little way I'm proud of it. At least I know that things are taken care of, and that I can at least make it from paycheck to paycheck. I've been thinking about all the times older people have told me about their times as a student with little or no money to spare. I'm certainly not starving; I just had a big breakfast. But I think I am finally appreciating what it means to assume responsibility for these concerns as a whole. I remember thinking about what that would be like when I was child.
I've become distracted again. This weekend I plan to head over to Janne's place. I haven't seen her since before the New Years, and I feel bad for not visiting more often. It will be nice to get away from this apartment. Saturday I don't have much in mind, but it would be excellent if I could pin myself down and do some research for my Plato paper. And Sunday is the Super Bowl. I'd like to get out of this place since it's not the most ideal place to watch the game, but I don't want to leave James behind. Hopefully, he's up for going some place. Anyways that's the weekend, and if you want to know what I really think of it, here it is- there are a bunch of opportunities to drink beer, and that sounds just fine to me.
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I'm bracketing off this portion of the entry, because I've been thinking about this over the last few days. In the December '07 edition of Time magazine there is an article about sensory disorders. In a segment of the article a researcher describes the most common sensory types founds amongst people. These aren't disorders, but she's found that most people fit into one of the behavior patterns.
Seekers- Enjoy extreme sports, touch others when talking, like being barefoot; hum, tap and make other idle noises.
Sensors- May startle easily; require quiet while working; notice minor changes in recipes; get motion sickness more than others.
Avoiders- Need time alone; have narrow food preferences; wear gloves for messy chores; steer clear of shopping malls.
Bystanders- Didn't notice clutter or ambient noise; may wear clothing askew; have bumps and bruises they don't recall getting.
After looking over the list a few times I've found that these aren't air tight. Just thinking about my brothers, I can see how they would cross a few of the categories. But I also think there is something to this; though it's possible I'm just putting too much into it. I see myself as a sensor. Clearly I get motion sickness more than others, I notice when the my burrito has a different kind of mexican rice, and really I can't work on a paper in a cafe, or when someone is snoring, or when there's punk music playing. I don't think I startle easily, but I'm not completely sure how to quantify that.
In someway I'd like to make an apology for sensors. Throughout my academic existence in the collegiate atmosphere, I've wondered what I'm good at. Fearfully, I've sometimes thought it was mimicry. I don't know if I actually have a creative bone in my body. That's why I was happy to hear Mr. Kelly talk about how no one is really creative, and that we all cop off other people before us, either conciously or unconciously. But it's possible that I'm exceptionally prone to adhering to other's ideas, and that I'm not worth much on my own. I guess if that's true, I've come to terms with it somewhat. I think the reason I pick up on other people's stuff, is that I can usually get a sense of people. Now I have to be careful when I say this, because I think it's a common thing for people to think they have a sense of people. That's probably why there are so many psychology majors. I think they want to get a handle of the way people act and react, and for the most part people are actually pretty good at this. This is why we expect people to see where we are coming from in certain situations, even if we may know very little about them. I just think they're more confident in their abilities than they really should be. To a great extent, and as much as people want to make it sound otherwise, people are still very much mysterious. And while we may have great faith in our ability to see into people, I think it's a mark of maturity to realize when that ability is in over its head.
If I had any talent that relates to the philosophic realm it would be that sort of sensing. Maybe that's why I'm more comfortable in (and gain more insight from) discussion rather than writing. And while I rely on it to make conversation go more smoothly, it's just a tool for the dialectic. Really you have to worry about any further use of it.
An hour later this post is going up, I'll think about these things and maybe write more later.
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